Deep Work System by Ali Abdaal

 Inspired by Cal Newport, Ali talks in the video about his Deep Work system.

Advice for 2025

 I will post some interesting videos about 2025 advice

Ryan Holiday

Ali Abdaal

When You Should All Over Yourself

 This article is a good as it talks about shouldy thinking. In the end, we have desires, goals, et al, but first and foremost, keep it real.

Keeping it here for future reference. 

 

Tony Robbins talks a bit about shoulds in the above videos. Worth a listen.

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1) Stoic Mantras You Need To Remember

I love these mantras, as explained by Mr Holiday

 

 

Lessons of Life From Daily Stoic Podcasts

 I read the blog post here from Ryan Holiday. In this post, Ryan wrote about the lessons he learnt from his guests on his Daily Stoic podcast.

I will post here the podcast videos featured in this post.

Francis Ford Coppola

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Do the Right Thing by Ryan Holiday

Lecture at US Naval Academy 

In this video, I love the lessons of the principles of stoicism outlined by Ryan, using examples of the alumni of the Naval Academy. Right Thing, Right Now .. that's the main idea is this video.

Gonna put it here as a reminder.

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1) Pattern and cycle. For democracies, it tends to be that way, even USA. Dems have to find their FDR.

Video

Just Do.

Judge on What They Do, Not What They Say

 Spot on. I use this nowadays.

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 So many thoughts on DJT 2nd coming :P ... especially, on how he won, but u know what ... for one, Republicans cannot take the high moral ground anymore ... ala the Clinton impeachment, etc. 

Video

I love this writer's explanations. It actually explains a lot of politics going on, now, as well.

This one was also interesting as it explains the ground noises that lead to what happened

Using ChatGPT As A Tool

 Cal Newport's article here prompted this post. 

My Favorite Ryan Holiday Shorts

 Ryan likes to publish shorts on Youtube, which are snippets of stoicism advice, based on the stuff he writes. This blog post will have an ongoing collection of his shorts that I like.

Where do you want to go?

 on change

Ego Kills Your Career

Memento Mori 

Stillness is important

Stop Doing This 5 things

ego is the enemy

don't waste time

It does not matter what others do

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Excellent Ryan Holiday Blog Posts / Articles

 One of my favorite writers is Ryan Holiday, as you are well aware, in this blog. To make easy for me, for future reference, I would list here his blog posts which I liked reading. This list would be probably continuously updated.

This Is Why You Don’t Want To Tell Yourself Stories

July 10, 2024

You Don’t Have To Be Lucky, You Just Have To Be Good

July 24, 2024

Koleksi Tweet di Twitter / X tentang DSAI

 

Nov 25, 2022 DSAI / WA berjumpa mentor ... link.

A Contra On Generative AI

 I like this video on the contradiction on the hype generative AI, so am parking it here for further watch and review

12 (Stoic) Rules For Life by Ryan Holiday

 The words are here below

1. Own the morning 

2. Focus on what you can control 

3. Be present

4. Do one thing everyday

5. Do one good turn everything

6. Do only what is essential 

7. Speak with the dead(reading)

8. Be tolerant with others and hard on yourself

9. Make beautiful choices

10. Listen more than you speak

11. Turn obstacles into opportunities

12. Remember you will die

The video below

How To Stay Locked In

 The tips of tranquility by Ryan Holiday. Love it.

An Interview With Cal Newport

 I got this interview of Cal Newport via his latest blog post. It is a profile on him, featuring his latest book, and since I think it a good description of his ideas, gonna park it here. :)

Finish It says Neil Gaiman

 Got this piece of advice by Neil Gaiman from the James Clear newsletter that I subscribe to. His advice is pretty simple - Finish what you start.

The article is here. 

bonus video

Be You by Ryan Holiday

 Read this post today, and sigh, it is so true. Everyone's signature is different, so why you should be the same as anyone else?

Be You.

Selamat Pagi --- Morning!

The Long Post of Top Motivation Videos

 This post will be continuously updated with motivational videos that I like  :) Please come back to check the new additions.

12 June 2024

MAKE YOUR BED

HOW TO GROW FROM YOUR PAIN

Petua James Clear Untuk Berubah

 Saya suka video ringkas ini oleh James Clear, penulis buku 'Atomic Habits', tentang cara untuk menjadi orang yang anda inginkan. It's all about the small habits reinforcing the identity.

Bonus video di bawah, tentang perjalanan ringkas beliau dalam menjadi penulis 'Atomic Habits'

Laman rasmi beliau:  www.jamesclear.com 

Mind Tips from Jim Kwik

I saw these mind/digitalo detox tips from Jim Kwik and decide to post them here

30 minutes of white space - spend 30 minutes awake without any digital devices

Turn off unnecessary digital notifications - turn off these stuff from your mobile.

Mental exercise - remember the hp number someone you use to call, without referring to the mobile

Do decision-making without the aid of digital devices once a while

enjoy this video

Ryan Holiday's Ten Habits For A Better Life

 His original post is here here from his blog.

In promoting his latest book, Right Here Right Now, Ryan list ten habits that he says should be cultivated, drawing from the book.

The 10 are

1. Tell the truth
2. Respect others
3. Give, give, give
4. Find the good
5. Choose a north star
6. Hold the line
7. Develop competence
8. Love
9. Just be kind
10. Leave this place better than you found it

You can read the article for more details on the list. Personally, I like number 5. I think that one guides the rest ... oh well, just me.

                                                                two working iMacs :D

Interesting Points by Mark Manson on Content Business

 Mark Manson sat with Eric Siu to talk about various stuff related to his works. The video title is slightly misleading, but actually, the topics covered were extremely insightful, as it made me understand him, and the content business better.

For a different look at self help, I always liked Manson's perspective, and he does go into this topic a bit. Also, he explains his current pivot of YouTube for content as well.

The video is below

Ryan Holiday's Best Career / Life Advice (There Are Three)

 Read this post via email today, and it hit me like a ton of bricks. Advice no 1 is so so true ., and me was guilty of it. Again ego.

selfie :D

Just Do It Instead of Waiting For The Moment

 This series of examples by Billy O is a great reminder, to do, action, rather than dawdling, thinking etc.

I recommend subscription to his weekly email wholeheartedly.

the dude

About Two F*ck Books By Mark Manson

 I have quoted him here in an earlier post, about negative self help.

So, I thought about reviewing his books, which I actually recommend, as both are so different in their approach, in the self help genre. I like them both as they are refreshing, but I cannot say much, for now.

So here, what am I presenting here is the author himself, giving his own summary of both books. Enjoy it.

Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck

His secod book 

The 10 Points Wisdom of Charlie Munger

 I read an article about the infinite wisdom of the late Charlie Munger, the No 2 of Berkshire Hathaway. The link is below.

Here are 10 points of wisdom

1. The Most Valuable Riches Take Time

It takes time and process to be successful.

2. Avoid the Second Arrow

Whatever crap that happens, it is a wake up call/reminder to self.

3. Develop Real Knowledge

Say and do, to really know your thing.

4. Live What You Want to Receive

What you want other people to be, be it yourself.

5. Invert, Always Invert

To avoid danger/mistakes, imagine the scenarios and list the steps to avoid/minimize it.

6. Avoid the Ostrich Effect

Accepting the truth can challenge/change your current beliefs.

7. Never Mimic the Herd

Be yourself, it is never easy to do so.

8. Create a "Too Hard" Pile

Avoid things that seem too hard and handle the easy, consistently, instead.

9. Success Follows Interest

Be interested in the things you want to be successful. If you are not, nah.

10. Wisdom Compounds

Spend the day wiser than the previous day.

The article source is here. 

extra wisdom in video format

What is your Harajuku moment?

In this article, Tim Ferris quotes a friend who tells him about his 'Harajuku' moment. A moment he realizes that he himself was nearly responsible for his current weight problems. This led to his friend's efforts which lead to his eventual weight loss. But, this finding can also be applied to other parts of your life.

A very important part of the article 

"For a long time, I’ve known that the key to getting started down the path of being remarkable in anything is to simply act with the intention of being remarkable."

An Interesting Discovery Story on Jay Shetty in 2024

 Went to the Popular Bookfest 2024 today and saw the book 'Think Like A Monk' by Jay Shetty ... nearly bought it, but nah ... I left it for later. I also have a sample on Kindle of the book as well. He is popular nowadays with 2 major books, videos, podcasts, and life coaching courses. For the record, I have read and heard him, and I find his stuff okay lah. Nothing new, but a charming way of presentation.

Anyway, did a query on Copilot

---- info by Microsoft Copilot query

**Jay Shetty**, the renowned author and podcast host known for his motivational talks and self-help content, has recently faced scrutiny over allegations of dishonesty about his past and plagiarism on social media²³⁴. Here are some key points about the controversy:

1. **Fabricated Life Story**: Jay Shetty's life story of living with monks in India has been called into question. Reports suggest that portions of his autobiography may have been invented⁴.

2. **Plagiarism Allegations**: Shetty has been accused of stealing content from other people's social media accounts. Some of his inspirational posts are allegedly not original but borrowed from other sources³.

3. **Success and Influence**: Despite the controversy, Shetty's success continues. His "On Purpose" podcast remains highly subscribed, featuring interviews with high-profile guests. He has also made appearances at White House events and even had a menu item named after him at a luxury grocery chain in Los Angeles¹.

In summary, Jay Shetty's rise to fame has been accompanied by both admiration and skepticism. As with any public figure, controversies can shape perceptions, but his impact on the self-help and motivational space remains significant.

Source: Conversation with Bing, 14/04/2024

(1) 'Lied about his past': Motivational speaker Jay Shetty under scrutiny .... https://www.businesstoday.in/visualstories/entertainment/lied-about-his-past-motivational-speaker-jay-shetty-under-scrutiny-for-faking-his-history-111363-05-03-2024.

(2) Jay Shetty controversy: Claims of selling fake life stories. https://www.mynation.com/india-untold/jay-shetty-controversy-claims-of-selling-fake-life-stories-nti-s9v15t.

(3) Jay Shetty: British-Indian 'monk' who sold a fake life story. https://www.indiatoday.in/world/indians-abroad/story/british-indian-life-coach-jay-shetty-accused-fabricating-life-story-plagiarism-social-media-content-india-london-monk-2510435-2024-03-04.

(4) Uncovering the higher truth of Jay Shetty. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/ng-interactive/2024/feb/29/jay-shetty-self-help-empire.

(5) Self-help guru to the stars Jay Shetty lied about his past: report. https://nypost.com/2024/03/01/media/self-help-guru-to-the-stars-jay-shetty-lied-about-his-past-report/.

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This post content was assisted by Microsoft Copilot.

Here are a few YouTube videos on these allegations. 

Let's see where this story goes

1st edition of this post 14 April 2024.

My First Microsoft Copilot Post

 On a whim just now, I tested MS Copilot ... here was my request ... " write a 500 words positive blog post about Ryan Holiday "

So this is what came up ...

Ryan Holiday: A Modern Stoic Shaping Minds and Marketing In the realm of modern philosophy and marketing, few names are as resonant as Ryan Holiday's. Born on June 16, 1987, in Sacramento, California, Holiday has carved a niche for himself as an author, marketer, and entrepreneur, notably for his work in popularizing Stoic philosophy¹. Holiday's journey is one of audacity and ambition. Dropping out of the University of California, Riverside at 19, he embarked on a career that would see him consulting for authors like Tucker Max and Robert Greene¹. His marketing prowess shone brightly during his tenure as the Director of Marketing for American Apparel, where his innovative strategies left a lasting impact on the industry¹. However, it is Holiday's literary contributions that have cemented his status as a thought leader. His debut book, "Trust Me, I'm Lying," was a critical exposé on media manipulation and online journalism, earning a spot on the Wall Street Journal bestseller list¹. This was just the beginning of a series of works that would delve into the depths of human nature and philosophy. Holiday's books, such as "The Obstacle Is the Way," "Ego Is the Enemy," and "Stillness Is the Key," have not only sold millions of copies but have also been instrumental in reviving interest in Stoic philosophy¹. His writings offer a contemporary take on ancient wisdom, making it accessible and relevant to today's audience. His work has been embraced by sports teams, CEOs, and individuals seeking practical wisdom for life's challenges. Beyond his writing, Holiday is a media strategist with a keen understanding of the digital landscape. His second book, "Growth Hacker Marketing," highlights the shift from traditional marketing to growth hacking, a testament to his forward-thinking approach¹. Holiday's influence extends to his podcast, "The Daily Stoic," where he distills Stoic teachings into digestible daily lessons. He also owns the Painted Porch Bookshop, a hub for those seeking knowledge and community⁹. Despite his success, Holiday remains a polarizing figure, particularly for his commercialization of Stoicism through products like "Memento Mori" coins and various courses¹. Yet, it's this very entrepreneurial spirit that has allowed him to spread Stoic principles to a broader audience. At the heart of Holiday's philosophy is the belief that obstacles are not impediments but growth opportunities. His life and work embody the Stoic virtues of courage, temperance, justice, and wisdom. He encourages us to embrace challenges, control our perceptions, and act with integrity. As we navigate the complexities of the modern world, Ryan Holiday stands as a beacon of practical wisdom. His contributions to literature, philosophy, and marketing continue to inspire and provoke thought, urging us to look inward and rise above the tumult of our external circumstances. In conclusion, Ryan Holiday is more than an author or marketer; he is a modern Stoic whose teachings resonate with timeless truths. His work serves as a reminder that, even in our fast-paced, technology-driven world, ancient philosophies still hold the key to living a fulfilled and purposeful life. Source: Conversation with Bing, 03/04/2024 (1) Ryan Holiday - Wikipedia. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ryan_Holiday. (2) Ryan Holiday (Author) Bio, Wiki, Age, Daily Stoic, Height, Parents .... https://factsbio.com/ryan-holiday/. (3) Lives of the Stoics - Google Books. https://books.google.com/books/about/Lives_of_the_Stoics.html?id=F3zZDwAAQBAJ. (4) The Logos - RyanHoliday.net. https://ryanholiday.net/the-logos/. (5) About - RyanHoliday.net. https://ryanholiday.net/about/. (6) . https://bing.com/search?q=Ryan+Holiday+books. (7) My Books - RyanHoliday.net. https://ryanholiday.net/ryan-holiday-books/. (8) Books by Ryan Holiday (Author of The Obstacle Is the Way) - Goodreads. https://www.goodreads.com/author/list/5775580.Ryan_Holiday. (9) Ryan Holiday Books in Order (13 Book Series) - Most Recommended Books. https://www.mostrecommendedbooks.com/series/ryan-holiday-books-in-order. (10) Ryan Holiday Daily Stoic, Bio, Age, Wife, Books, Stoicism, & Net Worth. https://factsbuddy.com/ryan-holiday/.

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I used Grammarly a bit .. just to modify here and there ... in short, am impressed. As a follower of Ryan for a while, a lot of content above tallies what I think of him.

An interesting result for my first moir jump in to AI :D

A Better 2024 Pointer from Ryan Holiday

 A few good pointers from Mr Holiday, for a better 2024, in this article. 

one of my fav places - Tanah Rata, CH

Ryan Holiday on 2024 Books To Read List

 Am going to park his article here, for future reference ;) Actually, I have some of them already.

If You Only Read A Few Books In 2024, Read These

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